An interesting offer for one interesting man. More than simple patronage, a mentor as well. The classical root of mentor inspires an unusual vision: Athene, in male form, mentoring an accomplished acolyte of Venus.
motivation
I’ve looked into the modern sugar-daddy relationship. It’s less complex than what I want and already constrained by popular terminology sprouting online. I’m less than impressed by the mutual expectations. Patronage and mentorship are concepts for the mentally mature, the ambitious, the adventurous, those not afraid of unusual paths presented in life.
wish
Real chemistry. A deep mutual trust. More than a client — my ideal patron is a love affair minus heavy expectations. I am still going to travel, my patron is doubtless an experienced traveler himself. We can enjoy trips together and I can explore on my own. As my sole patron, the arrangement is naturally one of absolute exclusivity.
The ideal patron is someone who recognizes a budding entrepreneur. He is a venture-capitalist at heart. The empire I want to build requires an infusion of time and capital. But especially time. Time I can’t afford to purchase for myself right now. I want to be the next Judith Regan — but a lot nicer.
The ideal patron has extensive business experience. He is current, relevant and still forging ahead in his own world. He’s looking for one great protegee who leaves their mark on the world just as he has. Albeit a protegee with a much deeper relationship than what is commonly found in the usual office life!
fulfillment
How long will this affair last? Months, years. It will last as long as it lasts. Though it may start off by meeting for dinner, it certainly lasts longer than a mere evening or weekend. Otherwise there’s no point. (If all you want is dinner, an evening or weekend, then see my Rates page.)
Of course, this all depends on chemistry. The right person will “get” me and feel he has never met anyone like me before. I’ll have someone I can depend on, fully enjoy and who really starts my empire-building. A period of time in our lives that will be an experience for both of us and a rich memory when we part ways.
An affair — mutually-beneficial, lacking negatives for either of us.
